I read once an interview of Katherine Heigl, who said that since she’s married, sex has never been so good because you can let yourself totally go when you feel in safety. Maybe she’s right, but this doesn’t prevent some people to sleep with the person they truly hate.
One of my friends did sleep with a guy she hated because she was drunk and so was he at a party, and that’s how it happened. “We were in high school in the same class, and we couldn’t stand each other. I thought he was stupid and arrogant, he thought I was just meaningless. Years later, we met in a party, and as the evening went on, we got completely drunk. I can’t remember much things after the bar, but when I woke up in the morning and saw him laying on the bed next to me, completely naked as I was, I understood. I didn’t want to pursue a relationship with him after, and he didn’t want to either” she said.
My other friends think they won’t sleep with the people they don’t like or hate. But it depends. “If it’s just for sex and I fancy the guy nevertheless, then I would sleep with the guy I hate” one of my friends said. “It depends on how much I hate the person” another one said.
Alcohol can help you getting closer to the person you hate, but remember that hate and love are often linked with each other. Reasons why we hate each other are sometimes unjustified. I hate some people that have done me no harm (OK, one of them did try to ruin my career as a journalist and is a schizophrenic) and some people don’t like me even if they don’t know me personally. It’s just how we feel about the others.
Besides, sleeping with someone you hate means that you do trust him/her enough to let him/her touch you. Except of course, if you’re doing it for the money. In this case, some people will accept anything from anyone.
So, could you sleep with someone you truly hate?
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April 24, 2008 at
First of all, there is only one person in this world that I can truly say that I hate. Hate takes passion to exist, and allows them to have power over you. So I guess I could say I hate the fact that I hate this person. They do not deserve any of my power. There are many people, however, that I feel indifferent towards.
As far as sex with someone I hate, would I? Sex is the ultimate expression of our feelings towards someone that we love passionately, and even then is unable to totally express those feelings. Sex for just sex, for me, is just simply out of the question. That’s what they make battery operated objects for.
April 25, 2008 at
First of all I couldn’t imagine people hating you! The schizophrenic is probably jealous of you and let’s face it he’s crazy! Just had to get that out of the way. Sleeping with someone I hate . . . hmmm, I have never done that. I have slept with someone and hated them afterwards. LOL
April 26, 2008 at
Hi searchingwithin,
Hate does take passion to exist and it’s a really unpleasant feeling because you give too much credits to the person you hate. You belong to the category of people who don’t conceive sex out of a love relationship.
Thanks for your opinion.
DDTD, I’m not a saint. That schizophrenic guy is just jealous, and he’s responsible for the fall of other journalists in my newsroom, that’s why I hate him. Luckily for me, I had the chance to bypass him, but I still fear he could have his revenge. Indeed, you can sleep with someone, and then hate him afterwards