Archive for March, 2009
I had once a long discussion with my friends about the theory of the better half. Some of my friends say we never pick our equal because we need to love someone we can admire, someone who can reflect a good image of us. I’m not so sure. I guess it depends on how you [...]
Recently, one of my friends announced that she was seeing someone. She was single for a long time, and collected disastrous relationships with guys who didn’t want to commit. Some of them were married, others were just simply not emotionally available. Her new relationship isn’t like that. Her man is available for her whenever she [...]
“The more complex the order of your life is, the more difficult, risky and dangerous the process of falling in love is” – Francesco Alberoni
Recently, one of my friends told me that she had to make a huge change in her life. She asked for my advice, because she felt her decision would alienate all [...]
“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection. ” – Buddha
We have a gift for putting ourselves [...]
When you’re single, you can have some periods where sex is out of the menu. That’s one of the inconveniences of being single. To break this forced abstinence, some people turn to their friends, exes, or total random strangers.Others just hang on to their sex toys, cucumbers,or whatever comes. Sex is one of the fundamental needs [...]
Among the various search requests I received for this blog, there’s one question that keeps on coming back: How do I make a married man fall in love with me? I don’t want to judge those who ask that kind of question, but as I recently read Francesco Alberoni about falling in love, I think [...]
I once read an interview of Carla Bruni, where she said that she remained friends with her exes, because by ignoring all of them this is how you can end up alone. I do believe it’s possible to remain friend with SOME of your exes, but not all of them. Some relationships end really badly. [...]
One of my female acquaintances told me this story.
I met C. last year, almost exactly twelve months ago. I just had a miscarriage and I couldn’t have felt so low after that. C. is one of my professional contacts and he wanted to know we a little bit better so he invited me for a [...]












