For those who think about their old flame on this Valentine’s Day and eventually about winning back their heart, here are some little stories.
J. fell in love with R. when they were both 29, but at that time, they were both engaged with someone else. Because they didn’t want to hurt their partners and disappoint their parents and family who were planning their wedding, they decided to stop their affair with each other. They didn’t see each other after their wedding. Ten years after, they accidentally met in a restaurant, and realized they were both divorced, but again, they were involved in a relationship with another person. J. immediately dumped his partner after this brief encounter, in hope to win back R.’s heart. But R. remained faithful to her partner during the next two years. J. didn’t want to give up and pursued her with tons of love letters, flowers, … until she eventually yielded to him.
M. met H. while they were travelling in America. But after the end of the trip, H. completely vanished from M.’s life. M. thought at that time that H. was the one, but was very disappointed when she saw he didn’t try to get closer to her, and eventually disappeared. But three years later, H. tried to get in touch with her through a friend of her. He explained to her why he disappeared after the trip. He was married at that time, but fell immediately in love with M. when he first saw her. It took him so long to get back to her because he wanted to make sure he wasn’t passing by the chance of his life with his wife.
T. and R., were both single when they first met, and started to date straight away. But T. just got out of a nasty divorce and got a little depressed after that. Her bad mood weighted a lot on their relationship, so they parted their way. But they never forgot each other. Years later, they decided to rekindle their romance.
In all those examples, the couples realized they bonded when the time was wrong, but they were also made for each other. Some couples however never reformed years after their breakup, because one of the ex-lovers decided to turn the page.
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