When women get betrayed by a man who pretends to be someone else, or get dumped like a piece of trash, some of them take their revenge on the guy. I’m no exception to that. When I was 18, I got dumped for another girl by an arrogant guy who thought he was better than anyone . I spotted my ex’s new object of affection and told her what a jerk he was. She dumped him right away, and he got a little depressed after that . This episode still puts a smile upon my face when I think of it. Ah, sweet revenge…
One of my friend broke up with her lover because she was tired of his double life ( he was seeing two women at the same time) and his numerous promises of dumping the other woman for her. Of course, he never did. The problem was that my friend knew about the other woman, but the other didn’t have a clue about her. So, my friend just told her everything, and got lucky her rival was furious about it and didn’t forgive the guy. Because sometimes, things don’t turn that way. Some people would do anything for love, including forgiving a cheating partner.
Why do we act like that? I remember when I was 18 all my difficulties to forget what my ex did to me. So, my revenge help me to turn the page. My friend points out that her act of vengeance towards her ex was a payback. “He turned me down , so I didn’t see why I couldn’t do the same to him” she said.
Of course, there’ s no reason to deploy efforts like that for a guy who treated you right. But if the man is a real bastard, it’s such a pleasure to have a revenge on him.