Recently, I was discussing with a group of women about the importance of having a man who’s not a complete zero in bed. In other words, a good lover.
We had a different opinion on what makes a man a good lover. One of my friend thinks it’s a question of experience. “There’s less chances you find a good lover among the teenagers and college students because they only start to discover the female body” she said. “Do you remember you first sexual experiences ? Technically, it’s never that great , so it’s the same for the boys at that age” she added.
Another woman I know has a different argument. “ It’s just based on how sensual the guy is, no matter his age” she said. “Of course, this improves with experience, but not only” she added.
But when it comes to experience, the women I know all agree on one thing. “ If the guy slept with half of the town, I’m not sure I would like to sleep with him. I would feel judged by him, like one of his many conquests” a friend of mine said.
And besides, it’s not much a question of quantity, but more a question of quality. Ladykillers may collection women, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that you would get a champion of the bedroom. That’s what happened to T., 34. She accepted to spend the night with a man with the reputation of a casanova. She told me she was expecting to spend an incredible night with him (sexually speaking), but she got disappointed. “ He was all talk, but when we switched to the bedroom, that was another story. He just let me do everything he wanted me to do, but gave me nothing in return” she explained.
So what then makes a good lover? According to a friend of mine, he’s the guy who knows how to really satisfy you. I share her view.