We all are attracted to a certain type of men/women. But we also attract a certain type of men/women. Have you ever thought about who can fancy you and if there are similarities between your pretenders? At first sight, this doesn’t seem obvious, but if I ask this question around me, I get surprising answers.
One of my friends, who has Asian origins, doesn’t look at all her age, and told me that because of that, she attracts in general perverts of all kinds. “Normal guys are either convinced I’m way too young for them, although I’ll be hitting 30 this year, or they’re simply not interested in me” she said.
“I can’t say I attract a certain kind of men, but when I think about the pretenders I turned down, they had all this common point: they were seduced by me because they thought I was a fragile little thing. They all thought I needed their advices on everything, and they all thought that they could help me out. I’m not like that, that’s why I didn’t choose to date any of them” H., 34, said.
“It’s easy to fall in love with me. Men generally give me all the qualities because I’m pretty. This is mostly true with the dreamer kind of guys. And they all end up by getting disappointed by me and my reality. I choose carefully not to yield to that kind of men, because when you put someone on a pedestal, it’s easy to remove it from him afterwards” T., 32, said.
“I attract losers in general, who see in me a mother/ a financial support/ a savior” J., 35, said.
” With my big boobs, I attract all sort of perverts and men who have a mental age of a four year old” G., 35, said.
“I attract lesbians, and feminine guys” F., 30, said.
Unfortunately, we rarely attract the ones we fancy. It can happen, though. Besides, I’ve noticed that when you’re young, you can easily fall into the trap of your toxic pretenders. T. told me she has avoided her kind of pretenders like the plague since she experienced it when she was 18. “Back then, I was young, and I didn’t realize he was in love with the thought of me rather than the real me. He chased me for six months with many declarations, and when he got what he wanted, he basically got disappointed with me. It hurt a lot, I don’t want to experience this again” she said.
So, what kind of men/women do you attract? And would you consider dating them?