“All guys come back to their ex, in some ways”. That’s what I heard recently in a bar. From my experience, I can tell that all of my ex’s didn’t come back to me. There are some who completely disappear from my life and it’s been years, decades even, since we broke up. One of them was a foreign student during my College year. He went back to his country after finishing College. I’ve never heard about him anymore. One of them was a friend. We used to hang out a lot when we were in High School, but after we broke up, he didn’t want to speak to me anymore.
But that was before Facebook. None of them tried to reconnect with me through that social media. Post Facebook, I’ve noticed my ex’s who are still among my “friends” sometimes like my posts and pictures. But they don’t initiate contact with me. They don’t ask if I’m doing good, but they see it on Facebook. That social media makes us lazy…
There are some who only wish me a happy birthday and a happy new year. And that’s all they have to say.
So, it seems Facebook has done a good job of allowing ex’s to remain in contact. In some forms of contact.
Ex’s who really come back to me are an exception in my life. But two of them are just friends with me now. “If he really comes back into your life, it’s because he’s your soulmate” says one of my friends.