Recently, one of my friends brother passed away. He was only 35. He was murdered. He didn’t do anything wrong. He was at the worst place at the worst moment.
He was in love with a woman who was under threaten. Her ex didn’t cope with the break up, and wanted to kill her. My friend’s brother tried to protect her, but it wasn’t enough.
Last week, he was with her at his apartment, when her ex banged on the door. The ex found out his address because he knew some of his friends. He lied to them to get what he wanted.
My friend’s brother wanted to scare him, because he was strong. He used to lift weights. But it wasn’t enough. His murderer hit him with a knife by surprise, several times. He was stopped by three neighbors who heard the noise and called the police. In the ambulance, my friend’s brother passed away.
My friend is shocked for the moment, and doesn’t want to talk about it. I do understand.
But you never know all of the stories from your significant other. The past is difficult sometimes to reveal, especially when you were betrayed.
My friend said his brother never talked to him about his girlfriend’s past. He didn’t know how perturbed was her ex.
I don’t know if it would change the situation if he knew.