There’s one movie that left a strange footprint in my mind when I saw it for the first time: the unbearable lightness of being.
I didn’t know the script was inspired by the book of the same name written by Milan Kundera and I didn’t hear about the author before either.
In the book, but also in the movie, Sabina, a painter who’s Tomas’ mistress, always wore a hat when she and Tomas met to have sex. That hat had an erotic meaning between them. But when she wore that with one of her other lovers, it lost completely its meaning. And her lover just said to her it was ridiculous and asked her to take that off.
The little games we play with our lover are unique and don’t work with another one. Things can take a certain meaning throughout the time we spend with our lover and create a bond between us. That’s why it makes it so unique. Have you noticed that with each lover you have, you have different codes, behaviors, ignition tricks?
Some people used a lot of sex toys and can include BDSM into their sexual life. Some people don’t need that. I asked around me if people used any trick in the bedroom, and this is what I got:
“We just love to undress in front of a mirror, and often look at each other performing the sexual act. But apart from that, nothing else” H., 36, said.
“I enjoy the dime light of a candlelight in the bedroom” O., 36, said.
“We play our favorite songs”P., 37, said.
“From time to time, we use massage oil and scented powder. Sometimes, food like chocolate invite themselves in the bedroom” L., 36, said.
“Sometimes, we used sex toys like a vibrating egg or ring if we feel like it. Otherwise, we just go with the flow”M., 34, said.
“It depends on our moods. we can use sex toys, fine lingerie, food,… when we want to” I., 30, said.
So, do you use any trick in the bedroom?