In an episode of Sex and the City, Samantha Jones is approached by an old dude and she’s absolutely seduced by his manners. But once they turn in the bedroom, the vision of his flabby and old ass just makes her run away.
I had a discussion recently with some of my friends about the age limit we would accept in a guy. Basically, most of them don’t want to date a “grandpa”. At around 30, this is plainly explainable. But when we will hit 60 year old, this will be a different story.
But on the age limit, the answers vary a lot from a woman to another.
“I wouldn’t want to date a guy more than ten years older than me. I would fear we have nothing in common as we would be from different generations” H., 31, said.
“I don’t care as long as he’s not old enough to be my dad, and as he’s not too young too. I don’t want to babysit him either” G., 29, said.
“I don’t mind at all if he’s much older than me as long as he keeps a firm body”F., 35, said.
“I don’t care, as long as he treats me like I want”O., 34, said.
“Who cares? Now there’s the viagra, the sexuality of the old men have improved a lot, and no, I’m not bothered by the aspect of an old man at all”U., 36, said.
It’s true that with the viagra, things have changed a lot for the older generation. And apparently, this drug is also becoming hype with the younger generation. But the viagra doesn’t help at all improving our looks as we grow old. Unfortunately, even with botox and plastic surgery, the effect of time destroys our beauty.
In the end, this all boils down to a question: what is more important, the looks or the connection you have with your partner?